It’s because that person is a bad match for you – and by pretending to be someone you’re not to attract them you’re really hurting both of you.* Synopsis ***** Elf girl Elmia wakes up to find herself on top of an unfamiliar tower!?If you’re trying to be someone you’re not for someone else, eventually the chickens always come home to roost.For instance, let’s say you’re pretending to like sports because you want to be with someone who’s a huge sports fan.That is not an explicit description of a prostitute propositioning someone, but it gets the point across.When talking to a preteen or teen about pornography, you can explain that many people today look at pictures of naked women and men performing sexual activity, but none of this is pleasing to God.Males, who are generally more stimulated by sight than females, will always be the main consumers of pornography.But in our sex-saturated culture, pornography is becoming a problem for females as well.
MORE: For Better Relationships, Just Be Yourself Of course not!If you’re honest with yourself, do you think that trying to be someone you’re not will catch up to you?The truth is – if you want to attract the person who’s truly right for you into your life, you have to be true to yourself and honest about who you really are.The mistake I’m talking about is the common “identity trap”, where you feel that you have to play a certain role or define yourself a certain way to attract the person you really want to date.And the cure for that trap is one of the most commonly repeated suggestions in dating – just be yourself!
And we’ve taken our sons and daughters with us when we’ve gone to movie theaters to talk to theater managers and protest an NC-17 (formerly X-rated) movie that came to our community.